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So what makes this book different than everything else out there?
Well, mainly David DeAngelo himself. You see, David D. is a smart, educated regular guy. A regular guy who for the longest time, like so many others, couldn't figure out why he didn't have the success with women he wanted. Several years ago, he made the decision in his life to do whatever it takes to get this whole *dating* thing down, no matter what the cost. David read everything he could find about women and dating, and was disappointed to discover that for the most part, there was no quality information available for guys like him who wanted to learn. |
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When boiled down to its essence, one of the most popular questions I receive from guys is “Can I be nice to women or is that a formula for disaster?”
The answer is that you SHOULD be good to women, but you MUST understand women well enough to know the difference between when you are treating a woman WELL and when you are being taken advantage of, i.e. WALKED ALL OVER. And although that may seem simple enough, it’s actually quite difficult for most guys to know the difference between being good and being a doormat since society tends to have a DOUBLE STANDARD when it comes to men and women. What is this double standard? |
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That would mean that when you see an attractive woman, you would IMMEDIATELY approach her- and not only approach her, but you would feel like this ENTIRE topic called *meeting and attracting women* is a JOKE. And this *feeling* would SHOW in your demeanor, in your voice tone, in your control of the situation.
You would be talking to her like she was someone you've known for ten years, because you would have NO FEAR. As a matter of fact, you would be feeling like *This woman has NO idea how NOTHING she can do can affect me*. You would NOT get freaked out no matter what she did. As a matter of fact, if she acted aloof with you, you would be so calm, almost laughing to yourself how trivial this is, and that frame of mind would make you tease her in a non- bitter way, a COOL way, because you would feel ABSOLUTELY NO THREAT from this situation. |
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Then end with the *Well, I have to get back to my friends. It was nice talking to you.* And then get her number. For extra points in the Brass Balls department, if the number of ladies in the group is roughly equivalent to the number of guys in yours, bring them all over to your table (after you get the gal's number you wanted.) Say: *Hey, I'd like to offer some hospitality if you fine ladies would like to join up with us and meet some new people.* Your friends will be in awe of you. You can wait on that one until you've gotten comfortable with the *break into the herd* approach.
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